In the intricate tapestry of life, the thread of love often weaves its way through unexpected places. For Christine and Alastair Marais, both chartered accountants in the vibrant realm of numbers and spreadsheets, their journey together began at university − a story as unique as the accounting pick-up lines that may or may not have been exchanged.
Meeting at the crossroads of academia
Theirs was a union that simmered at first, taking its time to transform from classmates to companions. University provided the backdrop for their initial encounter, a setting where equations and algorithms laid the foundation for a connection that defied suspicion.
The revelation of ‘the one’
Ask them when they realised the other was ‘the one’, and Christine will playfully recall a moment of forgetfulness, jesting about losing her own name. In truth, it was a gradual realisation, akin to the nuanced recognition in revenue recognition: not an abrupt event, but an evolution over time, discovering that the other was a sanctuary in the storm of life. Being fellow CAs(SA) brought a unique advantage – a shared understanding of the demanding CA lifestyle. From the challenging articles period to the hurdles of pursuing a PhD, having a partner who comprehends the intricacies proved invaluable.
Financial dynamics and post-marital lessons
In the realm of spending, Christine proudly wears the badge of the big spender, defying the typical CA inclination towards budget adherence. Her reasoning? A simple appreciation for life’s finer things, a sentiment not lost on those who understand the meticulous nature of accountants.
Marriage brought its own lessons. Christine learned the importance of budgeting, a revelation for the self-proclaimed big spender. Meanwhile, Alastair expanded his culinary horizons, embracing the world of spicy food. Together, they embraced the art of self-sacrifice, navigating the delicate balance of work and family life.
Beyond financial considerations, marriage, they believe, demands a piece of one’s deepest self. Self-sacrifice and time are the currencies exchanged to maintain the delicate equilibrium of a successful union, a sentiment rooted in prioritising each other’s needs.
Nicknames and quirks
In the realm of endearments, Alastair affectionately calls Christine ‘Bunny’, a term whose origin has faded into the delightful haze of memory. Christine, in turn, coined the nickname ‘Cino’ for Alastair, inspired by the comforting warmth of a cappuccino.
Their shared initials, CA, became the centre of jokes when wedding stationery embraced the serendipity of their professional designations. Despite occasional jests about their ‘interesting’ conversations, friends and family proudly acknowledge the couple’s CA credentials.
Counting on each other
Looking ahead, Alastair dreams of completing his PhD and publishing insightful articles, while they collectively hope to expand their family. Christine aims for dual accreditation with CIMA, balancing her career aspirations with the newfound joy of parenthood.
Amidst the laughter, there’s a light-hearted confusion when faced with the question of who is really counting. Perhaps, in the realm of numbers, the non-CA partner is the silent observer, content.
As Christine and Alastair continue to pen the chapters of their love story, the balance sheet of their marriage is a testament to the enduring power of commitment, understanding, and the joyous arithmetic of shared laughter. In the world of CAs, where precision is paramount, their union stands as a beautiful equation of love.
Author
Sharon Manzini, Digital Content and Publishing Intern at SAICA
